Jealousy became famous for destroying the very thing that it was supposed to protect.

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(Free-Press-Release.com) December 22, 2011 -- Two people meet. The energy flow between them is clearly visible. They want to spend all their time together. They even want to make the most of being together. They want to create something truly unique from this new union. They are tired of their own individual lives and they are over the moon with the opportunity to build something new.

It is a fact that they will create something unique between themselves and it is inevitable. Something great will happen anyway and they can’t stop it even if they do not push it. They sense that they are on a good road. They have observed that many others have done it before them and now it is their turn to do the same. There is no choice available as to if it will happen or not. It is a given that it will happen. Nature and man are working hand in hand to create a role division called family.

At this point in their relationship, there are several options available to them. The one is to indulge in marriage and the other is to embrace a togetherness that fosters the growth of inner space and expansion. Each one needs to discover who they are and then celebrate their togetherness.

It is not long before the couple talks about marriage, an own house, a child and a pet. The feeling is one of being grounded, of belonging, of coming home. Natural life has now taken control of their lives. The only option available to them is to flow with the experiences that surround marriage, house, child and pet.

In this magic world of “we have to” there is no desire or even openness to any “free” time or “self” time. “We have to be together, we have to pay the mortgage and we have to maintain the household daily.” The child needs to be cared for almost twenty four hours a day. Two providers need to provide whatever is needed to sustain this family association that has a dynamic consumpsion of its own.

Once the couple is firmly set in this natural flow of family life then the other option suddenly demands attention. It is about the self life. It is about who I am amongst the obligations of family life. This can happen within a few months or a few years of a new relationship. This question will arise sometime and it demands clear answers.

When one of the partners starts wondering outside of the agreed and entrenched family roles, exactly at this point jealousy makes a grand entrance. The one who stays behind usually turns green of jealousy. Jealousy appears as a powerful saviour, the most likely protector of the natural family life. A tremendous amount of raw energy is released on the partner who is innocently and rightly taking steps to find themselves.

Jealousy has as aim to purify the aspirations of the “wondering” partner as to his or her clarity in relation to family and self. If the search for self is well developed then this partner will be able to convey reassurances to the partner staying behind. The reassurances have to do with the continuation of the family life and that new aspects need to be introduced to do exactly that what is needed for the continuation of family life.

The jealous partner plays a vital role in preparing the seeking partner for the road ahead. To sustain a family life and to seek the self do require exceptional preparation. The unfortunate thing is that the jealous partner soon get stuck in this new energy spewing role and the seeking partner too often abandon his or her search for self prematurely.

When this situation appears, the family life is in deep danger. When the search for self is labelled as a rejection of the family, at this point the family life dies. When a partner’s search for self proofs successful, at this very moment the family life receives a new lease for continuing family cohesion and growth.

Jealousy has an exceptional influence and importance in the family life. Jealousy asks direct questions. Jealousy demands clarity and openness. Jealousy can be the biggest boost for a flourishing family life ever. Jealousy is a fertilizer for the family tree. It actually does come with a warning message: “Too much can kill!”

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