Online Dating - That First Date

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(Free-Press-Release.com) November 7, 2011 -- Online dating - That first date.

So you have found someone on the internet dating site that takes your fancy and have even spoken on the phone? Now is the time to arrange to meet, and sooner rather than later. Psychologists recommend that you do this quickly as long periods of emailing, texting and phone conversations can build up an expectation of a person that they will probably never be able to match up to. You will be disappointed even before you start.

Arrange to meet somewhere centrally located and in a fairly public place, this gives both people a level of comfort. Organise a coffee date for no more than an hour and ideally in the daytime. Most people can tolerate one hour of another person's company and if you just don't click, you have not wasted vast amounts of time or money. If you are bowled over with each other, you can always extend the date or agree to meet again.

Keep the conversation light and upbeat. Try to avoid the obvious 'what a bastard my ex was' or 'she was a right bitch'. This only shows the uglier side of us humans and this kind of personal information can always be kept for later in the relationship.

It is traditional for the man to buy coffee but if you decide on eating, this should always be split between you. No obligation on anyone then.

There is a show business adage about 'leave them wanting more'. Never is this truer than when meeting people. If you part after an hour but cannot wait to see each other again, you are truly fortunate and privileged.

A nice text just after you have parted to say how you enjoyed the date is customary and it is at this point you either get the 'me too, let's do it again' or the message about no chemistry but a really nice person blah blah blah. Take it on the chin and move on. You cannot persuade or sell someone in to liking you.

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