Psychologist Releases New E-Book - Never Point a Loaded Gun…At Your Marriage - with a Revolutionary Thesis: Stress Is the Smoking Gun of Love’s Demise

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Atlanta, Georgia, United States of America (Free-Press-Release.com) January 15, 2012 -- Dr. John J. Parrino, Psychologist and noted stress expert, asserts that a married couple must confront more than a ‘lack of communication’ to heal a troubled relationship. Stress is a silent killer of love. The brain’s habit of swiftly igniting stress and defensiveness - the fight flight reflex - is the smoking gun of love’s demise.

In Dr. Parrino’s fable, Never Point a Loaded Gun… at Your Marriage, the Psychologist uses jungle animals – a Tiger and Giraffe - to portray the fight and flight reactions that are natural in all of us. Opposites attract in the jungle of love, but this natural attraction leads to destructive brain-chemical reactions, or bad chemistry. To illustrate this revolutionary thesis, he poses these questions to his clients: “Are we really any different from jungle animals when confronting danger? What happens when you argue with your partner?” “Yes!” he affirms. “Primordial habits appear. Conflict escalates and you - the Tiger - claws at the Giraffe for love. Then, your tall, repressive animal retreats for cover. It’s imperative that you discover the smoking gun (the Tiger and Giraffe) in your marriage.”
Dr. Parrino’s brain-body strategy for love relationships is based on the powerful principles of Marital Stress Management (MSM). Readers will learn to manage destructive thoughts, relax defensive reactions, and emit positive actions in the midst of conflict. Learning to conquer the impulse to fight (the Tiger) or flee (the Giraffe), is a vital step towards tapping the Love Reflex (the Elephant) – a natural instinct to reach out and connect with ones partner. This process transforms a bad chemistry into good, healthy brain reactions.

This fable is a simple, entertaining and profound story. The reader experiences a personal safari through the jungle of love, and uncovers the Tiger and Giraffe in her/his love life. And most important, the story strengthens a pivotal affirmation that underlies marital health and happiness: “I can be the Elephant in my marriage.”

Laura Lee Glass, Director of Marketing and Publishing for Aubrey Daniels International offered this review, “…I’m grateful that I’ve found this treasure – an invaluable book that demonstrates a system to keep my husband and myself in perfect harmony.”

The book can be purchased at http://www.amazon.com/dp/B006O2GNUO. For more information about Marital Stress Management (MSM) go to http://www.drparrino.com.

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