Scream Free Parenting Tips Make Tantrums A Thing Of The Past And Help Parents Break Through Communication Barriers With Their Children

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(Free-Press-Release.com) March 28, 2010 -- Renowned parenting coach Shelly Birger has teamed up with Jill Nagle, speaker and Family Mediator, to introduce parents to nine “conscious parenting” techniques in an effort to show them what their children really want when they act out, throw tantrums and become unreasonable.

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Scream Free Parenting Tips Make Tantrums A Thing Of The Past And Help Parents Break Through Communication Barriers With Their Children

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Berkely, CA, USA 3/29/2010 – The accomplished parenting advice duo believe that parents and many professionals have got it wrong when it comes to dealing with bad behavior, temper tantrums and how to discipline children and toddlers. They’ve created Perspectives On Feelings as a resource to educate parents and bring families closer together.

Many parents believe that children act out because they are being naughty or are trying to manipulate the adults. Even in the best situations parents often feel they need to resort to discipline or very outdated and short-term techniques like counting to three or removing a child’s toy.

Despite the popularity of some of these methods and their continued promotion by many popular parenting advice personalities the Perspectives On Feelings team feels that better and more empowering methods exist. These methods benefit both the parent and the child long term by focusing on trust and communication more than discipline and control.

The goal is to create more harmony in the home and make it a scream free environment for everybody.

“It’s not about emotional control, it’s about emotional intelligence” says Jill Nagle. “Simply addressing their behavior is short-term. It does not help us listen to our children. It does not build the long-term relationship you desire with them.
How they express their wants and needs as a smaller human being may not always make sense to us as grown adults.”

To some focusing on communication and feelings might sound a little too new age or like a lot of work. Parents who have adopted this new way of dealing with behavioral issues with their kids find it reduces stress and makes for a happier household.

Kristin Liabraaten, mother of two from Bend Oregon, USA had this to say to after using these techniques with her young son- "I found myself feeling frustrated and angry when he would burst into tears at things that seemed 'no big deal' to me. Since listening to Perspectives on Feelings, I have consciously practiced being a safe container for his feelings -- listening to his feelings. I find that the tears and uprising of anger last a much shorter time when I really tune in... and then he's happy again and ready to get going."

Kristin joins the ranks of a growing community of parents learning to get more in tune with their children and the emotions that come with growing up.

The principle behind this success relies on understanding the psychology and triggers behind the behavior. Children, like adults, need a method to reduce stress. Unlike adults they do not have a full set of communication tools and a social network that allows them to vent their frustration without the temper tantrums. So rather than tantrums being a behavioral issue they are really a natural, and required, stress release tool for your child.

With this understanding as a base Jill and Shelly provide techniques that allow parents to help their children work through their problems, improve communication and reduce the stress and negative emotions on both sides. With this goal in mind, combined with the success they have had so far, Shelly and Jill look set to help thousands of families in 2010.

About Jill Nagle

Jill Nagle is a professional family mediator, author, speaker and publisher.

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