How do gays girls go about dating guys?

November 23, 2006 (Press Release) -- I dated a girl and I fell in love with her. Gosh, she was hot! and I found out later, she's also got a hot girlfriend. NoOoo.....

So I checked out this gay blogger ( www.homosexualchat.blogspot.com) and answer to my solution. Its normal for them to date guys. Apprently. And not feel anything about us. Darn unfair.

"Dating guys is quite simply a scientific art. You need to know the steps. Then you must need to know how to modify the steps to match your date dude. Okay, I’m talking about girls dating guys here. Not guy-guy. I’ll get into that in another article.

The 7 step science of dating guys:
1) Get noticed by the guy and make conversation ( dUh)
2) Talk about his interest and then come in when he strikes a similarity with you.
3) Make the first move to say “I’ve gotta go” and make sure he ask for your hp number. 2nd best option is ask for his hp number. Give each other miscalls to make sure it registers on the phone.
4) Drop an sms saying “ it was really nice2meet u. hope we can do Starbucks sometime when ya free” . Leave it at that.
5) Try to remember the conversation is about the him and about you. Don’t hold let your conversation become one sided. Catch yourself when you begin talking too much. If you find it hard, well, pretend convincingly to do it anyhow.
6) When it comes to paying, you should bring out your wallet to contribute towards the bill. If he says to keep it back, then you do just that! Either way it’s a good reflection on you. Trust me on this one.
7) Have conversations that vary from hobbies to friends to what you love doing to work and general knowledge. It gives a better overall understanding

Now the 7 step art of it (the enhancers) :
1) Make strong eye contact of at least 2 seconds and then smile
2) When you shake hands, hold it a little longer than 2 seconds and stare into that persons eyes and say “ nice to meet you” with boldness
3) When you leave, shake hands again. This time use your left hand to lightly touch the back of his hand.
4) Control yourself from yawning to much by inhaling deep breathes
5) Be slow at digging into your wallet. What you needed to do was reach for your wallet and make drama. But of course, do it convincingly or do else actually take money out to pay.
6) 2 eyes to stare at, 2 ears to listen more and 1 mouth to speak. Use it accordingly.
7) Above all, the winning way is to least expect anything in return and treat them like a new friend. Don’t quickly qualify them as boyfriend material because that chases them off.

I think its new so there's nothing much yet. But its fantastically honest and its great to know someone from the inside. She's a great blogger. www.homosexualchat.blogspot.com