The Making Up Process Is Filled With Land Mines and Deal Breakers... But as long as you are willing to go the extra mile, let your hair down, making up can be an amazing experience.
United States of America (Press Release) May 10, 2008 --
So you want to, make your ex want you... Cut her off! Look, before that ex is an ex for good, cut her off. What the heck am I talking about, you're probably saying...
In your mind, dump her. Unless, you are ready to walk away, she won't take you seriously. The disconnection breeds reconnection. Still with me...
To make your ex want you, they have to believe, they've lost you. It's the fear of losing somebody for good, that will ignite movement. She will have to face the fact that she has lost you for good. And now, you have your Second chance. It's the action, not talking about it, that will bring this to the table. If they don' t believe, what you've been trying to say, then the action or separation, will bring your opportunity. Who knows, maybe she was just feeling a little suffocated. And in that case, all, she needs is a little space.
The worst thing you can do in this kind of situation is what? Suffocate her! It's only your fear, that won't let her go. And shining your fear in her face constantly, won't help--At All! Once you understand that and are able to back-off, you have a chance to make your ex want you. Get it?
Look, there could be many reasons, why your is your ex. But to make make your ex want you, you need to let her, really be your ex: No Stalking, harassing, calling at all hours of the night, etc., etc... Sound familiar? None of that crap.., unless you want her to remain your ex. Hey, look at what happened to Uma's stalker! Remembering that it is just your fear, trying to act out, will help. Let her see what it feels like, to really be your ex. Just being aware of that simple fact can help you, make your ex want you, without her even knowing why...
In your mind, dump her. Unless, you are ready to walk away, she won't take you seriously. The disconnection breeds reconnection. Still with me...
To make your ex want you, they have to believe, they've lost you. It's the fear of losing somebody for good, that will ignite movement. She will have to face the fact that she has lost you for good. And now, you have your Second chance. It's the action, not talking about it, that will bring this to the table. If they don' t believe, what you've been trying to say, then the action or separation, will bring your opportunity. Who knows, maybe she was just feeling a little suffocated. And in that case, all, she needs is a little space.
The worst thing you can do in this kind of situation is what? Suffocate her! It's only your fear, that won't let her go. And shining your fear in her face constantly, won't help--At All! Once you understand that and are able to back-off, you have a chance to make your ex want you. Get it?
Look, there could be many reasons, why your is your ex. But to make make your ex want you, you need to let her, really be your ex: No Stalking, harassing, calling at all hours of the night, etc., etc... Sound familiar? None of that crap.., unless you want her to remain your ex. Hey, look at what happened to Uma's stalker! Remembering that it is just your fear, trying to act out, will help. Let her see what it feels like, to really be your ex. Just being aware of that simple fact can help you, make your ex want you, without her even knowing why...
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